Surviving both the Hiroshima bombing and graduating from hospice care, Gladys Goto's life exemplifies extraordinary resilience, strength, and miracles. At 95, her journey reflects a spirit that has overcome challenges with grace and determination.
Born on Oahu, Gladys's family moved to Hiroshima at the onset of World War II, hoping Japan would be a safer place than Hawaii. Gladys was a high school student at the time training to become a Japanese – English translator when the bomb dropped. The building she was in collapsed on her, but she survived with only a scar on her cheek. All her family members survived too because they were home, away from the city, taking care of her younger sister who was sick that day.
After the war, Gladys returned to Hawaii, married, and moved to Los Angeles, where her daughter, Vicki Kury, was born. Her career was rich with experiences despite her reserved nature. As a travel agent, she explored the world exposing her to new cultures and adventures. She was also an excellent seamstress, lovingly sewing all of Vicki’s clothes until junior high. Upon retiring, they sought solace in the tranquility of the Big Island.
When Gladys was referred to hospice care on February 22, 2022, Vicki immediately looked into the program. Knowing how her mother, aunt, and grandparents survived, she knew that life could take unexpected twists and turns.
Thankfully, she found immense support from the team of nurses and CNAs when they enrolled into hospice. Volunteers also visited them weekly and cared for Gladys so Vicki could go out to run her errands. In addition, the hospice care team provided essential guidance, especially as Gladys’s dementia progressed. Vicki, having never dealt with Alzheimer’s, greatly appreciated the 24/7 support, which was invaluable during challenging moments such as when her mother suddenly passed out or experienced episodes of extreme agitation.
“You can watch YouTube videos about Alzheimer’s, but everybody’s dementia journey is different. There may be similarities, but there will always be something different. It’s not a disease with an exact tracking progress,” Vicki shared. Therefore, the hospice team’s personalized care, constant availability, and professional guidance made a significant difference for her and Gladys.
As her mother’s caregiver, Vicki emphasized the importance of hospice care for other caregivers.
“I would strongly recommend hospice to other caregivers. At the least, get the initial assessment and talk to the nurses because even if your family member doesn’t need hospice yet, the team may be able to give you better ideas and clues on what to look for when it does become time to seek help.” Gladys graduated out of the hospice program in February of 2024 when her health improved. Nonetheless, Vicki shared that she would, without hesitation, call Hawai`i Care Choices if she needed help again.
Indeed, Gladys is a survivor. She continues to find joy in daily activities, such as backyard gardening. Her story is a testament to the compassionate care provided by the hospice team and the enduring love of her family.
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